Raising Our Children, Raising OurselvesEvery parent would happily give up ever scolding, punishing or threatening if she only knew how to ensure that her toddler child teen would thrive and act responsibly without such painful measures. Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves is the answer to this universal wish. It is not about gentle ways to control a child, but about a way of being and of understanding a child so she he can be the best of herself, not because she fears you or seeks your