The Husband HabitWhy does Vanessa keep falling for married men? Not that she knows she does. At least not at first. But every man who seems like he might be the one turns out to be someone elses. So maybe the right thing to do is take a vow to stay single, to keep away from all men, until she can figure things out. At least work is a bright spot: Its an anchor to be so good at something, to lose yourself in your job, and Vanessa is a whiz of a chef, so good she makes