Hola Papi: How to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life LessonsLGBTQ advice columnist John Paul Brammer writes a "wise and charming" (David Sedaris) memoir in essays chronicling his journey from a queer, mixed race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation. "A master class of tone and tenderness." The New York Times Book Review (Editors' Choice) "Should be required reading." Los Angeles Times The first time someone called John Paul (JP) Brammer "Papi" was on the gay